11 Reasons Being Super Hot Looking is Problematic

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I get asked a lot what kind of men or women use a service like mine. A lot of people assume that only desperate men and women use a private introduction service. 

This could not be further from the truth.

I got reminded of this again, as I was talking to a client yesterday. She she told me that she doesn’t get approached by men as they are intimidated by her good looks (she’s tall, slim, athletic, blonde, blue eyes). 

There is even psychological evidence for this. In his article “11 Reasons Being Super Hot Looking is Problematic”, Dr Billi Gordon lists a number of reasons why being very attractive can be problematic for women. Intimidated men top the list.

They fear that they are not good enough or that the woman may be shallow. Yet, a lot of good-looking women simply want someone who sees beyond their natural beauty. Someone who will want to connect with them on an emotional and spiritual level. Someone who doesn’t view them as a trophy or lifestyle accessory. 

Since I talk to all my clients in person, I get to know their values and their outlook on life. These are the parameters I use when matching my clients. 

If you are interested in a consultation, contact me on claudia@luxdates.lu. Read about Luxdates’ membership here.


Claudia Neumeister

Claudia Neumeister has 20 years of experience as a headhunter for international corporations. As someone who loves connecting people (and who has created successful marriages in her private network), she has decided to apply her skills to creating long-lasting personal relationships at Luxdates

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